September 13, 2015

2015 Telluride Film Festival recap

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Labor Day weekend has come and gone. Summer is officially over, but don’t despair because there are lots of good films to see before we ring in 2016. This year’s Telluride Film Festival had some sure contenders for best picture. This year was light, as I only saw 13 films (reviews below) but this year was different for us (volunteers and staff) because lots of us “lifers” didn’t return. There are many reasons why, but I’m not going to dwell on what was missing and instead focus on the quality of the films.

Prediction:   Suffragette – 2015 Academy Award for Best Film

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Watch trailer here.

Suffragette release date: October 23, 2015. Here’s how the film describes itself: A drama that tracks the story of the foot soldiers of the early feminist movement, women who were forced underground to pursue a dangerous game of cat and mouse with an increasingly brutal State. These women were not primarily from the genteel educated classes, they were working women who had seen peaceful protest achieve nothing. Radicalized and turning to violence as the only route to change, they were willing to lose everything in their fight for equality – their jobs, their homes, their children and their lives. Maud was one such foot soldier. The story of her fight for dignity is as gripping and visceral as any thriller, it is also heart-breaking and inspirational.

Ladies. This is our story. Sure, Bridesmaids is also our story, but this film gives women their history (and power). I’ve watched many films over the years that depicted the atrocities Jews endured during the holocaust, black people during slavery and felt empathy, guilt and sadness for the people in the groups that were violated. But Suffragettes (women who fought for equal rights), are my people. Women. I am a woman in 2015 who has benefitted from the women of the suffrage movement. Suffragette depicts our story. Maud, played by Carey Mulligan, is an exhausted factory worker who is lured into the movement by her co-worker. Some of the film is typical, anti-hero stuff. Just like Maud has her eyes opened to a new way of thinking, I did, too. I don’t usually get sucked into would-be inspiring films, but this one hit me between the eyes like a 2×4. I wept. These women fought for our right not only to vote, but to be recognized as equal to men and I felt overwhelming gratitude. There are lots of ways to repay these women’s courageous acts. Here are a few 1) see this movie — extra credit: see it opening weekend; 2) encourage your friends, daughters, mothers to see this movie — extra credit: share on social media; 3) vote and make our voices heard. Or you can just do what I did, and call your mother and bawl like a baby.

2015 films I saw:

45 Years                               A

Anomalisa                            A

Beasts of No Nation             C

Black Mass                           B

Carol                                    B

He Named Me Malala           A

Heart of a Dog                     B

Picture                                 B

Room                                   A

Spotlight                              A

Steve Jobs                            A

Suffragette                            A + + + +

Taxi                                      A

45 Years

A

The wind howls throughout this film from beginning til the end. During the Q&A of this film, I learned that writer/director, Andrew Haigh said that there are actually 27 different wind sounds (after listening to many more) that are layered onto the dialogue. The backdrop is drained of color which just intensifies the film’s moody, chilly feel. Starring Charlotte Rampling, who should be nominated for this film, plays a woman who discovers a deeply buried secret about her 45 year marriage.

Anomalisa

A

Disclaimer: I love Charlie Kaufman. Being John Malkovich and Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind are two of my favorite films so I’m not objective about this film. Charlie’s Anomalisa is a combination of everything I love about his stories. It’s surreal, it’s sad and tells the truth about how every relationship is doomed from the start. I loved it! It is a perfect depiction of the pessimistic view that all relationships will repeat the same outcome because nothing is new and everyone is the same. Over and over. So, stay married, you might as well.

Beasts of No Nation

C

I had high expectations going into this film, and my takeaway is… maybe writers shouldn’t be directors and cinematographers, too? Cary Fukunaga (True Detective) was all three. This film is missing an emotional core that I could grab hold of. I wish the film was based in a real place, instead of a general African country. I like the main character, Agu (played by Abraham Attah) and wanted him to survive, but the graphic violence and way too long battle scenes were too gory and repetitive for me to keep my eyes open.

Black Mass

B

Johnny Depp (minus his Jack Sparrow ponytail) will surely be nominated for his role as Jimmy “Whitey” Bulger, crime boss who was captured in 2011. It’s a story about Whitey’s unchecked rise to power in South Boston underworld, while his brother, William, was president of the Massachusetts State Senate and one of the most powerful politicians in the state. One question: Why didn’t they just cast Ray Liotta? Production could have saved a few bucks on the skullcap and light contact lenses.

Carol

B

Story: Carol is the 2015 lesbian version of Brokeback Mountain with more art direction. I liked the pretty film, but I feel like I missed out on the characters’ obsession of the book (The Price of Salt). Like all the Telluride Film Fest films, lots of people had differing opinions and loved this film. Rooney Mara will surely be nominated (and Cate Blanchett, too) for her stellar performance as a woman who can’t decide what/who she wants. She’s like Julia Roberts in Runaway Bride. She takes her eggs however her mate takes his eggs. Only instead of eggs, she’s in love with a woman while engaged to a man.

He Named Me Malala

A

Wow. See this story if you want to be inspired by a girl who isn’t afraid of anything. When Malala was 11 years old, she was targeted and shot in the head by the Taliban. Since then, she became the youngest recipient of the Nobel Peace Prize. She’s a fascinating person… and not a typical teenager. I wish she had her own reality show so she could reach millions of young girls who desperately need a role model like Malala. She is an advocate for educating girls and the picture of strength and courage. Girl power! Attention Milwaukee! It’s playing at the Milwaukee Film Festival October, 1st:

Heart of a Dog

B

Artist, Laurie Anderson explores what it feels like to lose your best friend. This beautiful film is all about loss. Losing a parent. Losing a dog. 9/11. This is moving visual, avant-garde picture begins with home movies of her dog, Lollabelle, and ends with the questions that everyone faces with coming to terms with death.

Picture

B

Crazy, weird. Sneak preview of the most arty of art films. It’s basically a repetitive black and white image of an American Indian woman playing a drum on a beach for 68 minutes with other expressionism images flashed in-between. I disliked it after 20 minutes, but after 45 minutes, I was happy for the break of story and characters and ended up feeling like it was the perfect palate cleanser. Don’t look for this to play at your local mall. Or anywhere. It’s so weird (new?), there isn’t even an IMDB listing.

Room

A

Trapped in a room for seven years, this mother tries to protect her son from the evil that captured her. Part: ‘Life is Beautiful’ (telling her 5 year old that they live in “room” and space is all around), and part gritty awful dark ‘Silence of the Lambs’, this film is… dark. And with light at the end of the tunnel. Watch for Brie Larson to be nominated. This film will make her a big star.

Spotlight

A

Watching this film, I was constantly reminded of ‘All the President’s Men’. Unlike a fallen president, priests are the focus of this story when the 2001 Boston Globe’s investigative team called “Spotlight” discovered that not just one priest molested a boy, but the whole Catholic church was covering up hundreds of priests abusing thousands. It’s an awful story but Mark Ruffalo gives a great performance. The story full of twists and turns, making for a drama that’s thrilling and grounded in substantial gravitas.

Steve Jobs

A

I know what you’re thinking – another Steve Jobs story? Ugh. But. This is a good movie. For one thing, this one doesn’t have Ashton Kutcher… And Aaron Sorkin wrote it (read: lots of walking and talking). It’s West Wing with more techie talk. A fast-paced biography about a seriously emotionally-challenged guy who is mostly awful, but made some well-designed products. Michael Fassbender will probably get a nomination for best actor.

Suffragette

A++++

Full review above with one more thing to note. The cast is mostly women – but so is the crew: Sarah Gavron directs. Written by: Abi Morgan (who wrote Shame). Brendon Gleeson (loved him in 28 Days Later and In Bruges) co-stars, too. This movie is perfect. You will walk about 10′ taller. Grab your girls and see it on opening weekend. See it with the same ladies you saw Sex In The City with — and pack tissues.

Taxi

A

Queen Latifah is not in this one. Different movie. I promis this film is much, much better. This is the most unexpected film of 2015’s Telluride Film Festival. This is in the same class as previous festival surprises like The Band’s Visit (2007) and Wild Tales (2014). Taxi invites us to spend the day with filmmaker, Jafar Panahi and his revolving passengers. Is this a documentary? Kinda. It’s real enough to be. By making this film, Jafar Panahi is defying his Iranian government who banned him from making films. Ignoring his house arrest sentence, Panahi depicts himself driving this cab on the streets of Tehran telling stories of political heroism and human absurdities. Winner of Berlin’s Golden Bear 2015.  I hope this film is released because it’s quite a ride. Sorry. Couldn’t help myself.

More non-film highlights:

Best surprise: Seeing my favorite filmmaker, Alexander Payne at the Cornerhouse.

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Best offscreen actors: Seeing my favorite bozos and seeing movies with them

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Best photobomb:  Rooney Mara

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Best French guy: Serge Bromberg! Serge brings the “je ne sais quoi” to the Telluride Film Festival. His love for preserving films is contagious.

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Best live performance: RAP RAP RAP RAP RAP RAP. Before the staff film, on Thursday night, Apoc rocked the mic with his new single “Brand New Thing” — this is it. Can’t wait til this is released. Get ready for the Apoc Revolution. Until then… check out his other awesomeness.

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Best improv: Charlie Kaufman (left) fielding questions about puppet sex in Anomalisa.

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Second best surprise: Official Car of Telluride Film FestivalTesla.  Uh-huh.  All my favorites. Joy overload.

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Best VIDEO moment: Meryl Streep talking about what the woman’s movement to vote and equal rights mean to her.

Until next year, I love you, Telluride.

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Want to see more? Download the full program guide here.

February 11, 2015

Streetcar Named Milwaukee (we DESIRE beer, brats and great public transportation)

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Change comes hard — and not without a fight.

Most people would like to be able to invite change without the pressure of having to change to survive, but that rarely happens. Wouldn’t it be great if we could just change because we wanted to? New Year’s resolutions would be a snap. Change often comes because there’s no other choice but to change.

Listening to the radio on my commute downtown (along beautiful Lake Michigan) this morning, I listened with disbelief at the Alabama’s judges who are choosing to break the law to prevent same-sex marriage in the state. Which made me think… if Alabama is the most recent state to allow same-sex marriages, which states still don’t allow gay marriage? Alabama doesn’t spring to my mind first as a place that is breaking any records for “new thinking”. States that don’t permit same-sex marriages: AR, GA, KY, LA, MI, MO, ND, NE, OH, SD and — you guessed it! TX! Oh, Texas. Cities other than Austin may want to consider getting a little weird to stay relevant in 2015. Relevance means attracting a talented workforce (yes, I’m talking about those damn millennials!) that every city is fighting for. Phew! At least, Wisconsin was ahead of Alabama — but then again, is that saying much?

Progress is a battle. Many people want things to remain the same… Ultimately, change is risky. I’m very proud of my risk-taking hometown, Milwaukee. Yesterday, The Milwaukee City Council approved a streetcar to connect downtown and the lower east side (and beyond). Our city, like all cities, has its share of challenges. Our citizens were divided on this issue. In light of so many backwards ideas by our current governor, we are fighting hard to keep our great state great, it’s encouraging to see the city of Milwaukee embrace the future and forge a new path.

It means a lot to me to live in a city that invests in staying relevant and current. Millennials want more than beer and brats… ok, bad example. But in this case, we need to anticipate our future needs, like great public transportation. Making our city easy to navigate helps Milwaukee to attract tourists, retain current workforce and attract workforce from other cities. Talented people who may not have seen Milwaukee as “forward-thinking”… until now.

February 9, 2015

7 Fun Things To Do in Milwaukee

Anyone who knows me (or follows me on Instagram, Twitter or Facebook), knows that I am crazy about Milwaukee. Throughout my life, I’ve been fortunate to live in lots of beautiful places (Bermuda, Boston, Chicago, Los Angeles, Telluride). There’s no place like home. And in my case, I’ve done some comparison “city” shopping. In Milwaukee, you can hop in your car, park at the stadium, walk to your section and be sitting in your seat, with a cold beer in your hand at Miller Park within 20 minutes from downtown. Unlike when I lived in LA, it took 20+ minutes just to pull into the parking lot.

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Milwaukee’s got it going on. I love Milwaukee. Most people I know love Milwaukee, too. There’s so much to love about this city. But, for a moment, let’s talk about people who don’t like Milwaukee. They fall into two camps: 1) People who have never been to Milwaukee, and 2) People who never left. So, here’s your list of 7 Fun Things to Do and See in Milwaukee — so you won’t fall into the first camp.

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1. Kopps

Ok, full disclosure. Kopps may be #1 on another list… It’s probably the #1 reason I live in Milwaukee. It’s difficult to describe it because when I tell visitors about Kopps and say “it’s frozen custard”, people usually react by scrunching up their nose and reply “you mean, like frozen pudding?”. Um. No. It’s better than what you’re thinking. Imagine the best, creamiest ice cream* you’ve ever had. Now multiply that by 10. Download the Kopps app or check online to see what the Flavor Of The Day (FOTD).

* Warning: After eating Kopps, you’ll be ruined. Häagen Daz and Ben & Jerry’s will never taste as good.

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2. The Oriental Theatre

The Oriental is the crown jewel of Milwaukee. Some people say that’s the Art Museum (also on my list – see #7), but I don’t go to the Art Museum every other week. The Oriental is pure magic. It features ornate stained-glass chandeliers, enormous Buddhas, hand drawn murals, lions and elephants. The Oriental is Milwaukee’s movie palace showing great art films since 1927. If you have time to squeeze a movie in during your visit, try to go on a Friday or Saturday night at the 7PM show because you’re in for a special treat. Bill, the 80+ year old organist, plays the old timey organ for 30 minutes before the film previews begin. Sing along if you know the words to On Wisconsin or Roll Out the Barrel!

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3. Holler House

Meet Marcy. Marcy runs the Holler House on the south side. The Holler House is a Milwaukee institution. It’s the oldest continuously operating bowling alley in the United States. History! There are so many warm, welcoming things about the Holler House which is why I’ve listed it here. The biggest reason I want people to experience Holler House is these real Milwaukee taverns (with 80+ year old owners) are disappearing. This is the real deal Milwaukee. This is not a hipster-afied version of a bar. And get this, if you want to bowl, Marcy arranges two neighborhood kids to set the pins. Let’s go bowling (Milwaukee style)!

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4. Milwaukee Public Market

Located in the neighborhood just south of downtown (called the Third Ward), Milwaukee’s Public Market hosts beautiful historic buildings and an opportunity to shop local. Stop by St. Paul Fish Company for the $12 whole lobster meal. And for dessert, C.Adam’s Bakery makes these amazing homemade peanut butter cookies.

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5.  Sporting events: Brewers, Bucks, Packers, oh my!

Wisconsin is a sports-crazed state. Our beloved Green Bay Packers are America’s team. If you have time for a road trip, visit Green Bay (Packers – 120 miles north) or Madison (Badgers – 90 miles west). Local teams include the Brewers and the Bucks. But Milwaukee hosts other great MLB and NBA teams, too. You’ll likely sit a lot closer at Miller Park or BMO Bradley Center than you would in your hometown. During baseball season, tailgating is our thing, so be sure to arrive at Miller Park 2-4 hours early to grill your brats and drink your beer in the parking lot. You’re sure to make a few local friends.

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6. Five Card Studs (not JUST for the ladies)

Do you like to have fun? Dig live music? Check out our best local cover band:  The Five Card Studs. They play lots of different venues in Milwaukee every weekend (and week days during the summer). Front man, Cesar Palace takes us on a journey through time singing recognizable 60s & 70s AM Gold classics from artists such as Neil Diamond, Engelbert Humperdink, Tom Jones, Santana; soul classics from Al Green, Smokey Robinson, The Spinners, Wilson Pickett; one-hit wonders like Brandy (You’re a Fine Girl), Hooked On A Feeling, Green Eyed Lady, Hot Child In The City, and The Love Boat; disco hits by the Bee Gees, The Ohio Players, ELO… You get the idea.

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7. The Art Museum

Imagine if the Jetsons and the Louvre had a baby. That’s our Milwaukee Art Museum. It’s a beautiful building with lots of places for arty selfies and any photo you snap in the building makes you look like a great photographer. Located on the shores of Lake Michigan, be sure to leave time to walk along the bike path and take in the Milwaukee skyline. If you can, coordinate with Gallery Night which happens quarterly and keeps MAM open late night.

Upcoming Gallery Nights:

April 17 & 18, 2015

July 24 & 25, 2015

October 16 & 17, 2015

There are so many things to love about Milwaukee, but do these things first, then I’ll add more. We will never have as many hipster beards as Brooklyn. We don’t put a bird on it like Portland. Milwaukee is cool, because it’s authentically itself. It’s original. Milwaukee is Milwaukee. Hey! Speaking of cool… Did I mention the bronze statue of the Fonz?

There are 2 kinds of people who like Milwaukee:  1) People who have been to Milwaukee; and 2) People who will never leave.

October 20, 2014

2014 Telluride Film Festival recap

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For those of you who know me, you already know that I love the Telluride Film Festival. I’m a “lifer”. When I moved to Telluride in 2001, I had no idea how much I’d fall in love with the town, people — and the Film Festival. I haven’t missed a film fest since. And this year’s program exceeded my expectations, as it does every year. I saw 15 films in 4 days. When my dad was alive, he asked me to write reviews of the films I saw at the film festival. He had no intention of ever watching them (“Go to a movie theater? Nah, the floor is too sticky.”). But for whatever reason, he enjoyed reading my take on the films. My dad died a few years ago, so I haven’t written reviews lately, but I liked our ritual, so this year, I’m writing for you.

2014 films I saw:

‘71

Birdman

California Split

Dancing Arabs

Escobar

Foxcatcher

The Gate

The Imitation Game

Keep On Keepin’ On

Life Itself

The Look of Silence

Mommy

Rosewater

Where Eagles Dare

Wild Tales

My favorite of 2014: Foxcatcher.

Starring: Steve Carell, Channing Tatum & Mark Ruffalo. Directed by Bennett Miller (Moneyball, Capote)

This film works on so many levels. It’s an amazing true story that follows John DuPont, an heir to one of America’s largest family fortunes. Miller lets the story unfold. For the first 45 minutes, I wasn’t sure where the narrative was going. It’s suspenseful and builds slowly (which drives some people nuts). It’s a truthful depiction of the “haves” and “have-nots” and how the game is stacked unfairly from the start. Like the fox that is released for a fox-hunt, where the humans have guns and resources, ultimately, the fox is outnumbered and he is easy prey.

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Grade: A

‘71

First, lemme say. This is a good film. And a really great year…

’71 shows what life was like in Belfast for a “left-behind” British soldier and residents during the height of the Catholic vs. Protestant violence.

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Grade: B

Birdman

Will blow your mind. Michael Keaton will probably win an Oscar for this role. Edward Norton & Zach Galifianakis are also great. Directed by Alejandro González (Babel – eh, and Biutiful, ugh) but this film is on a new level of film-making craftsmanship. It’s a story about redemption and second chances – and all the devious ways that our alter egos attempt to thwart our plans to live well.

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Grade: A

California Split

1974. And oh boy, is it ever 1974. Elloit Gould and George Segal in one of the best “buddy” films ever – because it’s not formulaic, it’s just fun. Robert Altman directs this classic tale that includes orange-throwing, goons, bets on naming all the Seven Dwarves (Dumbo is not one). Got to hear stories from Joseph Walsh (screenwriter) and George Segal about making the film in 1974 . Super magical moment. Only in Telluride.

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Grade: A

Dancing Arabs

A story about an Arab boy who is conflicted about attending a prestigious Jewish boarding school in Israel. Not one of my super favorites.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt2841572/?ref_=fn_al_tt_1

Grade: B

Escobar

Unlike previous years, there weren’t many “sneak previews”, but Escobar was one. Starring Benicio del Toro as Escobar. This is a typical cat/mouse chase. Scared white boy running from powerful Mexican drug czar. Feel like I’ve seen this story before.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt2515030/

Grade: B

The Gate

Suspenseful. A story that also takes place in 1971 when a French ethnologist studying rural Buddhism in Northern Cambodia was captured and accused of being a spy for the CIA. He is imprisoned and experiences the atrocities of war.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt3480146/?ref_=fn_al_tt_3

Grade: B

 

The Imitation Game

I’m not going to tell you much about this film because I believe you will see it. This film will get a wide release and has a good chance at winning Best Picture this year. Telluride has shown the Best Picture for the last 4 years. (12 Years a Slave, Argo, The Artist and The King’s Speech) and this is the best hope for this year. It’s really good. It’s got everything: WWII, technology/history, and the protagonist is gay. The Academy will love it.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt2084970/?ref_=nv_sr_1

Grade: B+

 

 

Keep On Keepin’ On

Quincy Jones produced this documentary about Clark Terry, a jazz legend who first met Quincy when he was a kid and became his teacher and mentor. It’s a great story about the power of teaching and connecting with students. A little encouragement goes a long way.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt2674040/?ref_=nv_sr_1

Grade: B

 

Life Itself

I love this film. I cried like a baby. And I never cry. Not in movies. Not in life. I’m no crybaby. This film is a wonderful, truthful, optimistic story. I didn’t expect to love the film or Roger Ebert – who’s life is depicted, but I do.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt2382298/?ref_=nv_sr_1

Grade: A

 

The Look of Silence

This is the companion / follow-up to the documentary, The Act of Killing. Might be the best documentary ever made. Just sayin. The Look of Silence is also excellent. The film attempts to tell “the other side of the story” – from the perspective of the victims who experienced a genocide in 1965 in Indonesia. And even though, it’s almost 50 years later, people still miss those they lost.

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Grade: A

 

Mommy

Over-rated. This film was way too dramatic and over-directed. I didn’t love it.

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Grade: C

 

Rosewater

Directed by Jon Stewart who I was really hoping to meet, but didn’t. The film is good, and Gael García Bernal does a great job. I wondered if Stewart wanted to tell this story out of some feeling of responsibility for what happened to the Iranian-born journalist who was imprisoned for what he said on The Daily Show in 2009.

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Grade: B

 

 

 

Where Eagles Dare

I fell asleep during this one. I sorta recall snow, gondolas, Clint Eastwood… wasn’t enough to keep my eyes open.

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Grade: N/A – I can’t score this – wouldn’t be fair

 

Wild Tales

This was the last film I saw of the 2014 Film Fest – and it was AAAMAZING! Such a fun ride. Funny. Smart. It’s 6 shorts, that are totally unrelated, except that each story is more outrageous than the last. Revenge is sweet, and sometimes, it’s really funny. If this film gets released, strap in and see it.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt3011894/?ref_=nv_sr_1

Grade: A

Best short film: Don’t Hug Me I’m Scared: This 3 minute film is nuts. You might want to smoke drugs before you watch it. Ready? Watch it here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vtkGtXtDlQA  You’re welcome.

October 22, 2012

Experience: Lights and music

Last night, I saw The xx.  Have you seen them live?   They were awesome.  And ok, yes, like Louis CK says, that word is overused.  But I will use it again.  The xx was AWESOME.  The music, the pacing, the set list, great choices.  I was transported – and that’s kinda what I expect from a live show.  The trio were moody and dark and alive.  Alive.  And I was ALIVE there with them.  The xx totally gets that in this fast-paced world, people won’t remember you if you come out and play the songs from your album and leave.  The energy of a live show (usually) isn’t enough (with the possible exception of the Jon Spencer Blues EXPLOSION – who I’m seeing tomorrow night).  The xx used awesome (there it is again) lighting to punctuate every song.  Flash. Bam. Pow.  It was almost too much.  As the lights overwhelmed every sense, I said a little prayer that no one in the audience had a seizure.  It was a lot.  My senses were exhilarated.  That’s good because I expect exhilaration for my time and $35 investment.  And I got it.  Good job, The xx!

This might be a stretch, but stay with me…  it made me think about the workplace.  And how the workplace needs to become more experiential.  Ok, maybe we don’t need a disco ball (um, but… maybe) or nonstop flashing lights but a creative space needs something memorable to experience (dare I say, exhilarating!?).  Creativity thrives on experiencing something new and unexpected.  Why aren’t more workplaces designed with this in mind?  Everything is so safe and functional.  The art (if there is any) looks drab – maybe a few earth-toned circles beside each other.  Or worse, those terrible inspirational word posters “Courage:  Against the Odds”.  The colors are safe (mostly shades of light and dark taupe).  Workspaces need sparkle.  People need bright colors to make their brain feel excited.  Give them a sense of whimsy.

Just like people will pay to see a band because the EXPERIENCE warrants the cost of the ticket, people will bring their talent to a place that gives them the EXPERIENCE they seek in which to be creative and productive.

So do yourself a favor and look for a place that feels right when you step inside your potential workplace.  Does the space feel conducive to being productive and creative — or are you already telling yourself that you can look beyond the taupe carpeting as long as they meet your asking price?

Every experience has its price.

June 6, 2012

One thing

One thing

I think I’ve figured out why people do not choose to start companies. Mostly because it’s really hard. Harder than you even imagine. People reject you constantly. It’s tiring pitching your idea to everyone you meet. And people reject you constantly. Constantly.  This leads to lots of questions and internal demons who chant – this is never going to work.  This mountain is too steep. There’s too many unknowns on this path. Oh, yeah, and the pay sucks (well, just until you IPO and you have more money than you ever imagined).

So. Getting a (good) job at a good company with good pay looks pretty damn good. Well, except when you have a job and you fantasize about starting your own business.

Grass is always greener. Life is a challenge on both sides. Seems like there’s always a better life, a better way. When you look around, people seem to have it a little better. Or do they? Really? I believe the trick to a good life – is finding that one thing (you know, like Curly said in City Slickers…)

Curly: Do you know what the secret of life is?
[holds up one finger]
Curly: This.
Mitch: Your finger?
Curly: One thing. Just one thing. You stick to that and the rest don’t mean shit.
Mitch: But, what is the “one thing?”
Curly: [smiles] That’s what *you* have to find out.

When you have that one thing in your grasp, and you know you’ve found it, then stop searching. Let that one thing be enough. Feel gratitude. Appreciate the beauty of your life because it’s fleeting. Because what Curly didn’t tell us is that one thing – it changes. Keep up.

April 19, 2012

Attention: Grumpy job seekers!

How’s the job hunt going?

Are the calls pouring in?

No?  Really?

Yeah, well, I sense your frustration.  So does everyone else.

I get it. Looking for a job sucks but you’re bringing me down.  Best not to regale recruiters with horror stories about looking for a job.  But, this is common sense, right?  Oh, you’d be surprised!  Perhaps it bears mentioning that it’s best not to talk about how the people you’ve reached out to don’t even know what a Curriculum Vitae is.  Best not to talk about how you find yourself surrounded by dummies is not an endearing way to start a conversation.  Listen to me… I’m focusing on the negative, talking about what you don’t want, instead talking about what you do want.  Let’s focus on what you want.

You want:

A great job where you are aligned on every level.  Matching your skills is just one part of the equation.  Look for place when you also share values (do you want to make the world better!? then find an organization that does, also, so you can double your impact AND be happy while working there).

You want:

A place where respect is important and mutual to all parties.  Don’t settle for a company that canceled the first 3 meetings.  Trust your gut.  If you are getting the sense that the company is run by flakes, then tell them you are pursing other opportunities.  It’s ok to move on.  You are wasting effort chasing every lead.

You want:

A job you love.

So go get a job you love.  Don’t settle.  Life is too effen short.

March 17, 2012

What’s wrong with me?

I met someone recently who upon learning that I’m not married, said, “How could that be?  What is wrong with you?  Are you crazy?”  I stared blankly at him, a bit shocked, then replied, “No,  I’m not crazy”.  Perhaps in an attempt to backpedal, he quickly added “but you’re a catch.  I don’t understand.”  He then proceeded to tell me that he never should have married his wife (oh yeah, did I mention… he’s married).  He said that he knew it was a mistake before his wedding day, but he went through with it anyway.  And now, all he really wants, is to fall in love.  It’s what’s been missing from his otherwise successful life.  It’s hard to feel bad for the guy who, at least from the outside, has everything.  Only he knows he is lost and longing for a different life, growing resentful of passing birthdays and watching the grains of sand fall a little faster through the hourglass as he recounts the big decisions of his life and wonders how it could have turned out differently if he had not denied his intuition.

That conversation left me wondering, too.  Maybe I am crazy… to believe that living an authentic life where genuineness, intuition and optimism have truly been my compasses to follow.  Perhaps people place no value on my choices because they haven’t followed their hearts so they think anyone who does, is just nuts.  There are so few examples where people actually create a life (job, spouse, adventures) where they follow their hearts – above all else. Maybe there aren’t enough everyday examples for people to believe it actually happens in real life. It’s so rare, they make ‘feel good’ movies about peoples’ stories where they persevered and followed their gut.

So.  Ok.  I’ve concluded that maybe there is something wrong with me.  I want to create a life in which I love my man with 100% of my big open heart and not hold back 20% because it’s smarter playing the odds and assuming that it will end someday.   I want to be loved 100% by a man who knows how to give to people he loves with an open heart without fear of being duped or rejected.  I want to earn a paycheck doing work that I really believe in, bringing joy (and example, to do the same) to people who also want to make the world better.  Is there something wrong with that?

February 14, 2012

Pink Slip Valentine

Lots of people have faced being fired in their careers… or ‘let go’ or some other pleasant euphemism.  During this economic climate, many people – through no fault of their own, have simply been dismissed.   It’s heartbreaking.  But what if it wasn’t?  What if people accepted that ‘pink slip’ with a sense of optimism, freedom and joy instead of dread?

Where does that dread begin?  As usual, it begins with the F Word.  Fear.  The fear of the unknown is tremendously powerful.  Even paralyzing for many.  We see people cling to bad jobs, bad marriages even the way people vote in elections – the idea that people would rather stick with the evil (or even just boring / mundane / uninspiring) that we know rather than strike out in a new direction.  But more and more people are getting brave about chucking the same old, same old for the unknown.  Change is happening so fast in our world, through technology, early adoption is getting mad ‘street cred’!  Sure, people still don’t want to fail, but even the definition of failure is changing.

When I’ve described The Good Jobs to people, many people enthusiastically nod their heads and comment “Yes!  I get it – it’s like Match.com for job seekers!?”   We are creating an online job community for people who want to fall in love with their jobs.  What’s important to you?  Dogs at work – check.  Equity ownership – check.  Flexible schedules – check.  I know what helps me to work well, so I’m going to choose a workplace where I will thrive.  I’ve had lots of jobs that I knew from Day 1, this is not a love connection.  I made the best of it (translation: ‘best of it’ = salary).   But even a relatively decent salary is only compelling for so long…  and sometimes (between pay days) our productivity suffers.  And then, our integrity suffers.   And then, sometimes a pink slip isn’t far behind.

Beat your current employer to the punch by giving them a pink slip.  Select an employer that makes your heart and your wallet sing!

January 31, 2012

7 steps to avoid a terrible, miserable life.

“Do what you love and you will never work a day in your life!”

So.  What if your alarm goes off and you hit snooze?  And then you hit snooze again.  And then after calculating exactly how many vacation days you have left, and a bit of negotiation about how much trouble you’d be in if you called in sick, you start that familiar conversation of psyching yourself up for the day ahead, grab an energy drink and begin your commute.  It’s not even Monday.  It’s Thursday.  Where is your ‘school spirit’?  Have you fallen out of love with your employer already?

I know how you feel.  I’ve been there.

Here are the 7 steps to finding your next good job.

1. Shock & Denial – I can’t believe I accepted this bad job.  I wasn’t my fault.  I didn’t know.

2. Pain & Guilt – I have a terrible stomach ache and I feel guilty that I can’t just suck it up and make this bad job work anymore.

3. Anger & Bargaining – Dang.  I messed up.  I’m so effen stupid.  But maybe if I suck it up and make it work, then people will admire me and I’ll have a good stable work history!?

4.  Depression & Loneliness – No.  No.  No.  I can’t suck it up anymore.  And what’s worse is, I’ll never find a good job.  Some people are lucky enough to find cool jobs, just not me.  I will work at sucky job all of my life and someday, I’ll die.

5. Upward Turn – But hey…  What if I could find a job where I like going to work every day?  I feel better just imagining that there is a better place.  I believe in the possibility of finding a job I love!

6.  Reconstruction & Working Through – There are a few resources out there to help me to find a job that I really want…  http://www.thegoodjobs.com looks like a cool site (launching soon!) that provides relevant information that connects me to THE job, instead of just ANY job…

7. Acceptance – THIS is my offer letter!?  From this awesome company with an amazing culture that matches me and my desire for life/work balance!?  Yes! I accept!